I’m really not trying to prolong it. He will text me back days after I stop. I told him if he doesn’t want to do this ne more we don’t have too. I’m OK with that. He always says he’s interested, just hesitant. Honestly the disappearing stuff bothers me more do to our past issues (he would disappear for weeks when we lived together, and I mean not come home at all) and honestly never dated or met a guy that does this. I think it’s rude to dissappear for weeks. I just could not do that to someone…maybe 24 hours but not weeks. I probably think it’s more rude do to the fact that is our only form of communication, we never talk on the phone or email ect.
No, we haven’t seen each other since we decided to try again. Right now the plan was to talk through stuff, then meet up and see where it goes from there. Which I think was a great plan considering communication was our main issue, mainly he doesn’t like it/do it at all. Hence the situation I’m in now.
So I guess, what are some good approaches to get a man to talk? That is if I decide to continue this…cause he always texts eventually everytime I think it’s done. And honestly it is strange cause he will do this to his family also. It is just all so mind blowing confusing. I’m the straight forward type, this kinda stuff just feels like a game to me.
Anyway thanks for the advice. 🙂
