[anna070]

Hi April,

A female has told me that my bf met her few weeks ago and they exchanged numbers and sent a few text messages to each other but nothing happened. Also ANNOTHER girl said the same thing. Is it okay to confront him and ask him to see his phone? If he has nothign to hide he should be able to show it to me, no? How can I ask him without sounding crazy….

[anna070]

I think the reason why i am freaking out is because we have already broken up 2 times. Last year right before summer he pulled away from me and we didn’t see each other for 2 months and then got back together. He admitted that he wasn’t sure about us so he pulled away. Then I broke up with him 2 months ago because he wasn;t giving me his all and was holding back a lot. After 2 months of being broken up he asked me for dinner and shortly after told me he loved me which he never has before. I know this time its work stress BUT i always have a fear that he is also getting “cold feet” with me.

Now its hard for me to just think its stress and he will come back around. I have a fear of him walking away of fearing commitment and this issue only adds on to his plate.

[anna070]

I am also confused WHY it is so hard for a person to simply send a short text or a reply saying I love you and I miss you too. There is no need to be short and ignore me completely. I am not asking to speak on the phone or asking him questions. SImply want a short sweet reply.

[anna070]

So should I leave him alone and not texting him at all? What if a week goes by without him contacting me?

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