Thankyou
I have disowned my 2nd son for his unforgivable abuse of me and insults to my recently diseased brother.
To my other 3 grown up children I sent a kind and friendly email and wished them all good luck and happiness in their lives.
I am hopeful that my 3rd son still wants to continue a relationship with his father even if the others wish not too.
Right now I am dealing with the loss of my baby brother which came after my initial post.