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oh and also should i contact him anytime soon or should i send my friend like she wants to? or should i wait for him to text me first? or should i wait a few more months to text him again?

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thank you for the advice 😀. i just cant see him moving on so quickly due to how serious our relationship was. yes i went too far with the drug and alcohol use but we went through so much more, and my dealbreaker was lying, and i withstood that for him and he begged me each time he lied to stay and i did. so the one time i make a mistake he jumps and packs his bags. im very confused about how he just did a 360 on me because of one mistake i regret deeply, and he knows im not really a drug person either. thats another reason why my friends are optimistic because he is so mad (his huge anger issues) he cant see any of the feelings he has for me and is lashing out and wants to do his college things, but one day he will get his wakeup call when he sees me happy or when he remembers how much he misses me when he gets over it. ultimately thats what i want right now, but i will work on myself like you said, because i do want to be a more confident and strong girl, more like the girl when he first met me. maybe that’ll get him to get him to come around, because i know moping and sadness isnt sexy. but other than confidence and time i dont know what else to do

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im 18 and hes 20. we met when i was 16 and he was 18. my friend believes now that he got out of this relationship, he can be free in college for a while and then get his wake up call. this makes me sick and i cant even imagine him hooking up with other girls. he got me a promise ring and everything, i know we were too young to talk about something that serious, but thats how much we loved eachother. im so scared i lost him for good and i dont know how to get him back. i know time is key with everything but im terrified ill lose him to a girl his age. my friends say to make it look like im ok without him and having a good time without him and itll make him jealous and want to be the one who makes me happy. but i dont know how to do that and i dont know if that will even work. i know i cant push it and keep badgering him but honestly i know hes the one for me, even if people think we’re too young to think so, my other boyfriends couldnt hold a candle to him. they say when you know, you know and i do. please help

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well it seems that the relationship she jumped into was a rebound anyway. and when she saw you again in july, she was acting nice and normal. maybe she was a little off and distant when mentioning to hang out because she was still a little hurt or shes playing hard to get. either way you have to play your cards right and be nice and read her emotions and go with them. it seems like the time gap made the comments you made to her a thing in the past, but its still a little reminder. when things like that happen, girls can forgive but we wont forget. so the time helped but if she doesnt seem interested from here on out then wait a little then begin flirting with her. dont jump into things, she might expect that. good luck!

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