[samf]

Actually, you have been extremely helpful. Your advice makes a lot more sense than anything I have been able to come up with. You have given me some valuable insights as to what might actually be going on here. In my brain as well as hers. Thanks so much for your help.

[samf]

Nope. You’ve got it. I am not very clear on what she wants either. I guess I was more concerned about that until now. It’s hard to say what I do want. I will try to nail that down. A little confusion does not bother me much. But, it seems like everything was pretty good until those head games. Not sure if that’s what they were, but it seemed like it. What would make her or someone act that way? Not sure what the message was. We seem to be having a little trouble communicating with each other.

[samf]

I think we got a little off track. I am not looking for someone to date. Nor is she. She is married. I am married. I accept that it cannot be a romantic relationship. Maybe it’s not a true “friendship” but whatever it is, I’d like it to continue and keep it positive. I am quite sure she does as well, but she has me a little confused about that.

[samf]

I think you are right and I think I kind of knew that. Thanks for being direct. As for asking her out, not possible right now. It may sound like procrastination or excuses, but it’s not. True, I would be seriously nervous, but I would not be afraid to. So I do want to keep it platonic. I enjoy chatting and flirting. I think you are also right about honesty missing here. I am hung up on this “fake infatuation” she was displaying. I’d really like to know what that was all about. And, I seem to be a persona-non-grata at the present. At least this time I have some idea why.

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