Hi April,
Well, maybe it’s a ticket in but I’m not sure about it…
Last week they (my friend and his girlfriend) had an argument and she got angry and depressed and didn’t talk with nobody, after 3 days we met each other, when I tried to talk to her between these days, she didn’t wanted to share the problem with me and it’s very odd and not normal.
And when we have met I told her I thought she might be angry at me at some point, and maybe she lost her confidence and the stopped trusting me, and she said that it’s not about me, it’s about him (my friend).
She was thinking about leaving him because he can’t build and “maintain” relationships and he’s not trying at all.
When she was at work and she have a friend there and they were talking about the problems and she mention me in the story, that I’m her second boyfriend I’m filling up all the things (about 80% of the stuff) that he’s not doing, her friend told her that she build two relationships, the more emotional one, and the other one is standing by her side when she really needs it and that’s me and I know all of her sides, when she’s happy, when she’s sad, frustrated, depressed, and angry, and he won’t try or want to know.
When I was listening to the story, I’ve tried to get her mind out of it and make her happy, and we talked about a trip that is very unique way and we both love the idea and we have something very special in common, a kind of a trip that can show you who you really are, and we were telling each and other our dreams that can be done together and we have so many things in common it’s crazy.
About my friend and the respect for him, I’ve decided that friend are coming and going everybody change with the time, he will get through it.
What do you think April?
Best regards.
