[Sincereguy1]

Thanks for the thoughts. And by the way. It was at just after or just before 10pm when she told me that she just found out she washed her phone with the sheets. That would mean that she was washing clothes roughly 10pm. Her washing clothes that late is not something i have heard of before. And usually, she is in bed by about 11pm these days… for the last few months.

Alfred

[Sincereguy1]

Actually i do want to work out our underlying problems. One of which is the lack of physical contact. And at least as a first step tp working them out, we will spend new years and the week before, together. I feel that we can work our issues out better in person than by phone, whatsapp or email.
1) So as far as the biggest question i have….the reason she hasn’t added me yet, almost 6 weeks after telling her i sent the request, is because she has a guy or guys on her facebook that she is invloved with, that she doesn’t want me to know about?
2) And is it even possible that when she 6 weeks ago, replied to me telling her about the facebook request, and said she just found out she washed her phone with the sheets, that she really washed her phone? Or you think that was a lie to somehow avoid accepting the request?

Thanks again.

[Sincereguy1]

Further. Originally, i requested her on fb just to be in her friend’s list, bcs its a normal relationship thing to do. But then when i saw that she was giving reasons to delay and not do it, i started pressing to be added so i could see what she is hiding on there. So seeing what exactly she is hiding (me from someone or something or someone from me and why).. has become my new reason to be added.. Thus is now why i keep pressing to be added.

[Sincereguy1]

Oh another thing i wanted to say was how could she say she didn’t hit the “last button”….(the “suspend profile” button), when she showed me the screen that says “profile suspended ” after she pressed the button. Unbelieveable!

[Sincereguy1]

I am 39 and she just turned 25 in june. Met online on october 23rd of 2013 on adating site called latinlovesearch.com but the new name is primo or primo love. I know bcs i checked recently to be sure she wasn’t still with an active profile on there…because in feb of 2014, 2 months after closing the profile, something told me to check and be sure it wasn’t reopened and when i looked, it was open again..her claiming she didn’t know how that happened then a few minutes later said “i know what happened, i didnt hit the last button”. The “last button” was a “confirmation to close profile” button that she clicked when originally closing it in december 2013. She couldnt possibly, in feb 2014 not remember hitting the “confirmation to close profile button” in december 2013 bcs after clicking the button, she even she showed me a pic from her laptop that showed the screen that says that the profile has now been closed. We agreed that the relationship became official on december 1st of 2013 so been together 2 years. I have only seen her once…for a week in april of 2014 but she will be here again december 26th to January 24th.
Their was also late night and early morning conversations on whatsapp from at least feb 2014 to july of this year. Sjlhe moved from peru to australia tge first week of this year. When asked in feb 2014 who she was talking to at those times, shr said a female friend who now lives in new zealand. And said i was being insecure by asking who is she talking to at those early amd late times….but obviously that is logical, not insecure to question that and doesn’t make sense she said it was insecure bcs she questioned me abt yhe same action which however was only to wake up early to see if she had finally sent a replied that she should have sent the night before. I noticed that she neeeever taljs about her guy friends, but i know they exist because i see their profiles in her google plus page and by the fact they like some of her fb pics…the likes…some of them are public though her profile is private. She has mentioned several female friend names but never mentions or brings up guy friends or their names. Literally, the only time she named a guy was when i asjed her who bought her the watch she showed me in a pic from a Christmas 2013 work dinner party. Because it was a gift from a man and a nice watch at that…as a secret santa gift…i asked if she or he ever wanted anything more than friendship with eachother and she replied “no, we are just friends “
The gift and how nice it was made it logical to ask.
And when i asked her about “what she meant by
“I have MET brazilian guys at the english school she attends and they are not like that” (her reply to me saying Brazilian men are macho) she proceeded to say about how she met some brazilian GIRLS in the school and that they and brazilian people are very nice people….i asked her to explain her comment about Brazilian GUYS and she answered about brazilian GIRLS….this to me confirmed what i suspected….that she has some issue with talking about her GUY friends…hopevthis helps to get more info from you…thanks

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