Thank you for the reply. Through out our relationship he has never mentioned about any interest in men. He has never made me feel less loved,he has always been committed to me,totally interested in the marriage and focused on me whenever we are together.since I came to know about this I have asked him in a lot of different ways if he has feelings for his friend and hasn’t realized and he keeps saying he is 100% sure about his feelings for me and assures me that won’t change. The only proof I have is what he is saying.i want to trust him but something is stopping me.if he really is committed to me and just made this huge mistake which he is already regretting I don’t want to let him go but how would I know that.how do I get to the truth? Thank you.