Thank you for your advice. Part of me knows everything you said is true, but the other part of me so desperately wants to do everything I can to try and save this. But I do realize it is not up to me and it’s perhaps the most saddening part of all. It is up to him, and I do not see him changing or taking any responsibility for the way he’s been treating me. According to Marc, he’s a great guy and every problem in our relationship is my fault. He says I need to lighten up and stop causing him stress. It’s clear my feelings and needs aren’t even put into consideration, and either is the babies and there’s no changing his mind. We’ve reached a brick wall and every brick I knock down he adds 2 more.
