[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]She wrote that she wants you to ask her next week, so just ask her next week!

You’re overthinking this…. 😉[/quote]

okay thanks. so you think I still have a high probability chance of her saying yes? even though she said maybe?

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”Anonymous2121″][quote=”April Masini”]No, it’s not a no. It means she’d like you to ask her on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. 😉[/quote]
Okay. So I should ask her again on Tuesday or Wednesday to remind her of Friday? Idk because some of my friends said she’s not interested because she didn’t give a definite yes.[/quote]
And that I should just move on to the next one.

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]No, it’s not a no. It means she’d like you to ask her on Tuesday or Wednesday of next week. 😉[/quote]
Okay. So I should ask her again on Tuesday or Wednesday to remind her of Friday? Idk because some of my friends said she’s not interested because she didn’t give a definite yes.

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]You’ve answered your own question! 🙂 Use the D word so she knows your intentions and there’s no confusion.[/quote]
So today i just asked her out to a first date and well, here’s our conversation:

Me: Hey are you busy next Friday?
Her: I don’t know. I don’t plan that far ahead.
Me: Well you’re a really fun person to hang out with and i was wondering if I could take you out to dinner like korean bbq or pho next Friday after your midterm. (says kind of awkwardly)
Her: (laughs) Ask me next week.
Me: Okay. As a date…
Her: (smiles) I don’t know if I’m busy then.
Me: So maybe?
Her: Maybe. (smiles and exits building)

What does she mean? Is it a no?

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]Awesome that you had dinner together. Now, ask her to go to a movie, or something off campus! Ice skating that you had mentioned previously is a great idea. I’m sure you can come up with a slew of others. Keep the relationship going on this one on one dynamic! 😉[/quote]

Okay. Forsure I’m going to ask her out today because she had midterms all week and stressed out and I was able to ask her out. So should I say “Let’s go catch a movie” or should I say the word “date” along with it? By not saying “date” she may think it’s just a friends thing. Thanks

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]This isn’t a racetrack with odds! Or percentages…. it’s love. Go ask her out! 🙂[/quote]

Okay. I wasn’t able to ask her today because she had a meeting right when I was about to ask.

Update: We had dinner at our dinning hall and we talked some. We laughed and shared some moments. However there were some times when she would look at her phone (twitter )but she kept conversing with me. She did not show any signs of liking me though. I don’t know if we’re just friends or if she actually likes me.

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]Ask her this week — Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday — for a specific weekend date. If you can do it face to face, that’s best. And you should try to do it when the two of you are alone — and if you don’t find yourselves alone, ask her if you can talk to her privately for a minute, if she’s with a group of friends. If you can’t find the time to do it face to face, call her on the phone. Women respond positively to mens’ voices, and if you can talk to her (don’t leave a phone message asking her for the date), you’ll have better luck than if you text or e-mail her.

Good luck! 😀[/quote]

Okay I’m going to ask her out today! Honestly what percent chance do you think I have? Thanks again for everything! 🙂

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]Yes!! 😀[/quote]

Thank You very much! One last question. When should I ask her? And where? Thanks again!

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]The first thing you mentioned works! You can say, I’d love to spend some more time with you — would you like to go on a date? There’s a great movie playing that I think you’d love (and mention the movie). I know it’s scary to put yourself out there, but once you do you’ll be able to feel more confident and do this more easily in the future. That first “ask” is always a little nerve wracking, but the worst that happens is that you get a no — and I don’t think you will in this case. 😉[/quote]

Maybe ask her to a non boring date? like ice skating?

[Anonymous2121]

[quote=”April Masini”]I think it sounds like you’ve got a shot! 😉 Ask her out — since you both like Netflix, why not invite her to a first-run movie that isn’t on Netflix yet. Or you can invite her to funky theater that shows old movies! I think you should ask her out — and yes, you do have a chance. 🙂[/quote]

Thank You! But how should I ask her? Should I say ” Want to go out on a date?” or “You’re special/awesome…” or what? I don’t know how to ask her with the highest probability of her saying yes. Thanks again!

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