Thank you for replying and your insight on my issue. I like your idea of using honey instead of vinegar. While I feel like I am using honey, I think I am too sticky! Maybe I can push with that honey, as you say, with a reward later. 😉 Glad you agree with me about how he might be embarrassed about his job status. I’ve never mentioned it to anyone and now can see I might be on to something there. I might need to push less, at least until he is feeling better about things. Thank you for your response, this helped a lot