Thanks for your quick response. As, i have mentioned I have studied up on many of the areas that have caused issue educational videos, sexual therapy, exercise, etc…. and I still have not been able to give her what she wants and needs in bed. Please don’t get me wrong, we have found ways to enjoy herself in bed, I have spent thousands of dollars on vibrators and other such toys. She has a good time and we are very intimate together. I think she wishes that she could have that primal experience where you don’t need any aids you just have that chemistry that clicks and sexual vibe takes over and everything just clicks as far as compatibility. If this is possible I want her to experience it. She would do it for me, so why not in reverse? I understand the risk and so does she, but my question is if you have exhausted all the possibilities, when do you accept it and move on? I can be selfish and say well you should have experienced that before us, I did? If she finds someone who does satisfy her in bed, does that end our marriage? I would hope that our marriage is more and if it isn’t than that says quite a bit about us. Or is it that we should settle and except what is given to us. I am okay either way, but I wonder if she would be? Is it possible to have both? Do you challenge the unfamiliar or let sleeping dogs lie? Thanks for your response again. Love the information and your professionalism.
