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Member #373,323lucifer
breakup #1
by lucifer
Hello.i had asked for your advice once before and its still the same topic that i need advice on.we fought too much and broke up.It has been 3 months now.please go through this–
She:once upon atime..
Me:there lived a king and a queen
She:named (myname) and (her name) ha ha ha
She:but they dint live hppily ever after thats the only difference
Me:u never know
She:i wish they could have lived happily ever after..
She:i dont want to knw..i already know now
Me:so do i
Then she asked me was it good being in a relationship or its good single…i told her that we did need a break it was a bad phase etc etc..
Another day she called me by a love name she used to call me when in relationship .she was talking sweet .
Another day…we were texting and..
Me:ihave one thingthat i know is the greatest gift i can give u,but i dont know whether u know it(love)
She:i dont want
me:i wasnt talking about material thing
She:i know what u talking about i dont want that too.
I dont understand whats on her mind and how to brong the right thing on her mind ,any advice …
One thing ,i have noticed is she cant let me go completely and she is very determined too.
P.s. i love her alottlucifer
Member #373,323We are in the same college,we happen to meet,what then?
And on social networks (whatsapp)?lucifer
Member #373,323Should i talk to her often ,or should i not.I dont give in myself completely but what do i do?She said you would find someone better. lucifer
Member #373,323I feel there is a way which i am not able to figure out. c:
All i can do is improve myself,be positive about us and enjoy life and thank you:)lucifer
Member #373,323You are very correct.And i am not hurting myself.
I think she is afraid to face this if it happens all over again.I ,ll tell you when (if) we get back.lucifer
Member #373,323Hi ,my friend had convinced her that you try one more time and she did agree to it.he told her that you did good by breaking up ,he would improve but everyone deserves a second chance.she was convinced.she told him i will see if he has changed.after 2 days she texted him that no ,its over.even if he becomes my dream boy ,no.i dont want a relationship.i dont feel for him or anyone else too.
:c;:(lucifer
Member #373,323How long do i n8t contact ?i had tried this for 2 weeks or so. lucifer
Member #373,323Thank you
But im scared most of the times thinking what if i go wrong.I dont want to lose her.She had told me to move on and be happy with someone.I want to bring back all the love.Any advice would help.If love was ever true,does it really find a way?lucifer
Member #373,323I have stopped being needy.I dont think that love between us has vanished and i seriously want her back.I did cut off contact for a few days ,she had called me during this time to ask about me.My friends suggested that i should begin talking to her ,so i began.But,i dont bring the breakup in the conversation. She is just lost and i want to take all the rights steps to have her believe in me.This will take time ,i know and im readysShe met a small accident ,so i call her once in a day to enquire about her.when her leg was paining alott she had texted me about it.i cant explain this in words,but there is something ,but ,it will take much efforts to make her realise that and i dont want to go wrong. -
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