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aha , okay thank you for the advice.

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Do you think its a bad thing that i want to move to him ?
It will make both him and i happy …
But my parents will be so against it.they will get angry and they might say no to me.
But i want to be near my boyfriend because it will make me really happy.
What should i do

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ah okay thank you for the advice.
well its something that i and him want , it will make us both happy.

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Like my parents will only want me to move to a guy once we are married ..
But for me my own self i dont want to rush into marriage . As you know we have been in a long distance relationship for a long time .
Now thats why i want to move close to him so we can really learn more about each other .

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Cool thank you for the advice …
What is your thought on marriage ? What if its not part of i and my partners plans yet. Maybe one day in the future when God permits than we will get married .
Does it mean that if im dating we have to rush marriage just because we are dating ?

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i have been dating with my guy since 2012 , but in 2012 i left our country to go study abroad , so nextyear i am moving back to our country . my boyfriend lives in city A and my parents live in city B. so since my boyfriend and i started dating we have mostly been in a long distance relationship. but now that im moving back home i want to go work in city A where my boyfriend lives so i can be near him and for us to progress our relationship and see where its really going.
if i go stay at my parents in city B it will be really difficult to be seeing my boyfriend hence my parents are so controlling and they will want me to be in the house by 17:00pm everyday.they still treat me like a small child. im 24years old and my boyfriend is 31. we are only dating and no marriage plans yet,not in a rush for that.i guess that will happen 1day when its bound 2 happen.
i want to be close to my boyfriend just to make up for all the away time and for us to be happy.
but my parents are so dramatic they will say no and they will want me to be in the house 24/7 , i mean than whats the use that im in a relationship.. if i move they will get angry and they will say that i dont have respect for elders.
please help me whats your advice and what can i do in a situation like this

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im currently studying abroad , so we are currently in a long distance relationship as he is back home in my country.
but when i go for vacation than i live with my parents.
And they are so clingy. they will call me nonstop to ask where i am , and if i come home late they will scold me.
they want me to be in the house 24/7.

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1iv bin dating this guy since 2012.
And lastyear he told his mom about me and his mom said that okay shes looking forward to meeting me. so i told my boyfriend that okay before i meet his mom let me tell my mom also about him just to make things fair for him too.
so in august 2015 i told my mom that i have something to tell her and she said okay , i told her about my boyfriend that my boyfriend feels like im hiding him hence i dont talk about him to my family and that he told his mom about me and the mom is looking forward to meeting me.
so my mom said that no i cannot go to my boyfriend them , if his people want to see me than they should come to me. and she said that my boyfriend cannot come to our house yet as family members have to be called to come witness the day he comes.but please note that this is only a relationship,not engagement or wedding. And my mom was very negative she said stuff like people get asked CVs,when the guy comes he has to bring his cv along , and does he have a degree , was he at a university, which type of person asks such things and talk so bad about someone they have not met before..
please note i am 24years and my guy is 31 years.so the whole situation really made me angry and i distanced myself from my parents.now they are painting a bad picture of me that i dont check up on them anymore and that im bad person. but im not a bad person , and its so sad that they dont realise that they where the wrong ones and thats what drove me to get angry

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