Thanks so much April! Believe it or not last night after I posted my question I did just that. I texted her asking do something after work this week. We’re in New York City and the weather is gorgeous so I asked her to take a walk on the high line. And that it would not be a date. She responded later after I was already asleep saying it sounded enticing but also that maybe I was using some kind of reverse psychology to get her on this “non date” though she might have been joking. It’s been busy at work today so I haven’t talked to her to know what her answer is. I hope she comes. I never know when you are supposed to take a polite no as an answer and when maybe some persistence is charming and might pay off. It’s very hard to tell. I had another conversation with her after asking her out and she said she is currently a very “confused girl” whatever that means. If she doesn’t say yes to just taking a stroll and talking in guessing I’m about out of moves here right?
