[taylornicole015]

Thank you for your kind response. It was insightful to hear since my own family and friends have said the same thing – apparently everyone else knew but me.

I went to speak with him last night and the moment he got into my car he had nothing nice to say. He was full of rude comments and he actually told me he never wanted a commitment, he never wanted to talk about future stuff, he never saw us having a future or getting engaged or even seeing us lasting. This continued on for a little while he spoke his peace and I told him the only way we can stay together is if he decides to put in effort for this relationship and will starting putting me as a priority and he told me that’s something he couldn’t do. So I had to break up with him. I feel really upset after being with him for so long and having to officially have this over but at the same time it’s like how could he lie to me so much throughout this relationship.. He told me everything I wanted to hear but now it turns out none of it was true.

[taylornicole015]

I want to add in, he did work the night before I forgot to say that… However, I would have been more accepting of him to show up later no matter what time that is compared to him not showing at all. That is what was a slap in the face to me — that he didn’t show any time of the day on Easter.

Needless to say, he has had this job for the last year and a half and has never missed a holiday before — he has always shown up.

He is 25 years old and I am 22. We have been together on and off for the last almost three years.

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