My ex fiancé and I were together for 3 yrs. he’s 44 and so am I. We are both single parents to teenagers, not between us, but blended. March 13th he started to throw hints at me hints about we are too busy , we spend no time together although we went shopping together eight together did a lot of things together however we were not intimate as much . March 24 he says to me that he just wants to be friends. Although I agreed, I was a little hurt. I was wondering because he didn’t want me to come over as often as before I will come over we would eat dinner together cook dinner together , so now little by little giving more excuses not to hang. But I would show up anyways, because he has 2 of my cats, because in the apartment I’m in they don’t allow pets. So with that being said, March 24 I came unannounced and he wasn’t at the house here’s a guy that spends most of his days with his kids and his two boys and now he’s not home so I kind a got worried and I called him. He did not answer the phone to send me a text telling me that he’ll get back to me he had an emergency . Waited for him until 3 o’clock in the morning , he did not know I was there waiting so I left he never got home I looked at our ADT system and he came home at 10 o’clock in the morning. He stayed over his new girlfriend’s house he stayed over his new girlfriend’s house. I didn’t confront him, because we had agreed we would remain friends, but here’s my question, he still wants to kiss me, hold me and text me morning and night, during that period, comes by my job and picks up my car does the tune up and buys me lunch, still wants to be best friends he says. I played along until Saturday, I came to feed the cats because he said he was going to help his step daughter move , and left 8am, left the dog tied up in the back and the cats roaming the streets, so I called him and he would not text or pick up the phone, 6pm he text me and asks what do I want I said I don’t have the key to the house and poor dog been outside all day the cats are roaming, he started to get angry and asking what game was I playing but he was at the water park having fun with his kids. So here you lied about moving his stepdaughter and then later that night I found out when his girlfriend and the boys were with her sister , I know I shouldn’t be mad but he shouldn’t text me when you have a girlfriend what should I do I need my Out of the house but I cannot have them now what should I do ?
mmoli71
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