We met on line, we spoke everyday for two months. I traveled 700 miles to meet him, I spent 5 days with him and child.
Dating was not ever part of our relationship. Other than talking everyday.
I do realize that it was fast and quick, but I have met a man who has matched me on many different levels.
I was willing to slow things down willing to move, not to live with him but to foster and continue the relationship. WE both are in our late forties.