[inesziou]

Thanks a lot April, I’ll try to do that 🙂 Now I need your opinion on something. Today, after school, I saw him sitting alone in the cafeteria and I sat with him. It was really awkward and really difficult to keep the conversation going. He asked me questions that he had asked me before (as if he didn’t listen the other times) and it felt like I was bothering him more than anything. What should I think of that? Does it mean that he lost interest in me? Is he just really shy and didn’t know what to say since he didn’t know I would talk to him? I’m just really tired of wondering wha the thinks of me and want to know so I’ll be able to move on if he doesn’t like me.

[inesziou]

What I mean is that I feel like we only talk about insignificant things. Nothing that really matters. I want to be able to discuss my dreams and fear with him and not scare him off. I want to get to know him on a deeper level. Right now, our conversations only revolve around our day and what we did at school (the usual small talk) and at some point, we don’t know what to say anymore, so it kinds of end awkwardly. I want to that to stop, I want our conversation to get comfortable. I know that to get comfortable with him, we need to spend more time together, but the only moments we can see each other is at school and I feel way too much pressure from my friends to talk to him there.

[inesziou]

He’s going to turn 17 this month and I’m going to turn 16 in July

[inesziou]

Thank you, I’ll try to do that! 🙂 I understand that we’re not at the same place, but I feel like we’re always talking about the same things and it’s not going anywhere. I wanna stop the small talk and really get into deeper conversations with him but I don’t know how to do that. I don’t want to scare him off while talking about something too soon… Do you understand what I mean? I know that I need to see him more often for our realtion to grow, because nothing will happen if we only text all the time, but I don’t know what to do. At school, I feel way too much pressure (because of my friends) so where should I meet him?

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