Yes my train has always been faster than his it seems. When it comes to our relationship, I am always the one to start the difficult conversations. Yeah I kind of figured that if our first anniversary comes up and I still have not moved in then I have a decision to make. I know that I want to get married and have kids one day and the next step in our relationship is to move in together. I know he wants to settle down eventually and have kids so we are on the same page there, but I can’t help thinking “is there a reason this man is still single at 35?”. I am basically living at his house already right now without it being “official”. All of my stuff from when I lived on my own is currently stored in his basement. I only moved in with my parents temporarily as I needed to move quick, but that turned more permanent after I got cut hours at work. I started my own company though and now don’t need to live with my parents any longer but part of me thinks that even if I did move out (I’d have to get another roomate), that I would still go over and stay at his house as it’s more comfortable and he actually fits in his bed (he’s really tall and won’t fit in mine). I don’t want to push the issue so I guess I will have to continue living like this until he thinks we are ready? The whole reason he said he wasn’t is because I needed to spend more time with him and I am doing that but it is very tiring still.
