[quote=”April Masini”]First of all, I know this is going to sound wrong, but you’re not friends. This is not a friendship. It’s a romance. That’s why you’re having trouble letting go. If you can recognize that this is a romance, you’ll be better able to deal with it. Friendship and romance are two different things. Second, although the two of you have strong feelings for each other, he’s made it very clear that because he doesn’t have the resources to date you across country, he doesn’t want to pursue this. He’s being very mature in this decision. I think you should really honor it. And since you’re both in college, you should focus your energy on people who are at your campus, available to date. It’s too easy to avoid what is an important time your life to date, by holding onto someone who’s unavailable. 😳 I know you really like this crush, but I think you should move on.[/quote]
Hi April,
Thank you for the fast reply! I guess I’m just feeling confused because I think he’s kinda sending me mixed signals. He said he was planning on flying over for my 21st at the end of this year which I think is a huge deal considering one of the reasons we weren’t doing this LDR was because of the distance… Any advice on how to try and move on?
