I’ve decided to just leave things as they are, primarily because I am concerned with how she’ll react. We’ve been through something similar before and I told her I needed a bit of breathing space for a bit. A few days later I was fine and attempted to return to normal but she ripped me a new one and made it into all about her.
It’s a sad thought and incredibly bitter but I can’t let her ‘win’ because I know what she’s like and she will believe that I’m trying to hurt her/attempting to get her back/not considering her feelings. It’s just not worth the drama and taking your advice into account it does, as you said, make more sense to leave it as is than potentially make it worse.
There is truth to that old saying “let sleeping dogs lie”.
Anyway thank you for your advice! I greatly appreciate your wisdom.
