So I broke up with my girlfriend two weeks ago, I realized how much of a mistake that was. Now she has moved on and doesn’t really want much to do with me. I am making the changes to what brought to the relationship to an end, I truly believe I am different than before. She says she can “see a future with me, but not right now, and she doesn’t believe me right now”. I guess my question is should I stay hopeful, or move on? And how can I prove to her I am different if we rarely talk (she will respond to me, I am waiting to see if she will initiate)? And if she is falling for this guy it just makes my case so much harder, I realize that love isn’t jealous I am not jealous of him, I just don’t understand what to do.
Some back story: I was just continually using dating apps; and seeking validation from other women than her, going as far as to send pictures to one girl.
She says we can be friends, and responds to my messages, but I am currently in the process of seeing if she will message me. Everyone always gives me the advice to WAIT. Well, I am waiting and it is hell. So I am just curious to what exactly I am waiting for? How can I show her how I’m changing if we rarely talk. If she doesn’t initiate the conversation by like Sunday afternoon, should I? I know, i know, wait and be patient maybe she will come around, but it doesn’t look good for me does it? Would it just be healthier to accept I ruined things and she could very likely be happier without me and focus on moving forward without her? Or does it seem like maybe one day she will come back to me?
