Hello April. Yes, I’m back again. After almost a year I started dating Liz in November. Because of the nature of our relationship in the past, I asked her if we could “wait” to go public and be official AFTER 3 months and a “re-evaluation” discussion in February. She insisted that she was “ready” and reluctantly agreed to what I asked. So things had been going along smoothly and last weekend was the date I set and we went away for the weekend and on Saturday we “talked”. I honestly knew going into this that what we were going to discuss was “already talked about” over the course of last few months but given our past on again/off again I wanted to go this length of time and see! So we did and we talked. All was good. Then we get home and last week Liz is completely “distant”. Finally Saturday she texts me and says that she was “underwhelmed” by the re-evalution and fairly irritated at me because of it because we had talked about all this stuff before. She has accused me of “manipulating” her and the situation and now she says she wants to “put a little distance” between us because of this and she’s barely talking to me, only through texts. I’m actually besides myself but I do realize NOW that maybe the whole re-evaluation thing probably wasn’t a good idea. I was going with my heart, not wanting to be hurt again and that’s why I wanted to “wait” the time. I told Liz through text that in hindsight this probably wasn’t the best thing and I apologized but it was done to satisfy my own mind that we could make it. Now she’s barely talking to me. What do you recommend I do? I just sent her a text and invited her to dinner but she declined. I’d appreciate any advice I can put into action quickly as I don’t want her to slip away.
Thanks.
Bryan
