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  • in reply to: Rational guy in an irrational state of mind =] #48290
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe,..she’s just fresh out of a breakup and her heart’s still glitching 💔✹ so don’t overplay it. just keep it light, flirty, no pressure 😌💅 you’re not friend-zoned but you’re in the *slow burn* “wait for your turn” zone, so show confidence, and let her come toward you. play it cool and she’ll feel the heat đŸ”„

    in reply to: Why does he constantly feel the need to insult me? #48289
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe
 this isn’t “joking,” this is emotional abuse with a cute excuse taped on top. men who love you don’t tear you down mid-dinner just to watch you bleed. they don’t say they’re not attracted to you **after sex** and then act shocked you’re hurt. that’s manipulation 101. you’re not “too sensitive.” he’s too cruel. get out before you start believing the lies he’s feeding you. you’re not weak, he’s just scared of a woman who knows her worth. đŸ’…đŸ”„

    in reply to: Lost my virginity to a friends with benefits situation #48288
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe
 you’re giving girlfriend energy to a man who won’t even give you a *maybe*. the sex? fire đŸ”„ but the situation is crumbs. level up, walk away, let him miss what he’ll never get again. you’re the fantasy so stop acting like the fallback. 💅✹

    in reply to: Do I wait for him to propose? #48287
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe
 stop acting like you’re the discount option. you’re 38, hot, busy, raising kids, running a life, that’s queen energy ✹ not “i’m lucky he picked me” energy. him? he’s sweet, he helps, he shows up, sure love that. but the cooling off? that’s him getting comfy while you’re getting anxious. pull back a little, let him come forward. if he doesn’t? you’ll know exactly how “genuine” it was. you’re not hard to love babe, he’s just not stepping up yet. 💅✹

    in reply to: I really like my TA, and I’m not sure if he’s interested #48283
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe… not the bald-eagle love letter. that’s not cute, that’s “i made art of us” on week one. he might be into you, the hair touch was *flirty*, but he’s still your TA. he has to be careful. you do too. keep talking, keep it light, and the second the semester ends, drop a simple “we should grab coffee sometime.” boom. adult, direct, zero cringe. save the bird art for after he kisses you, not before 😌💅✹

    in reply to: What should I do in this situation? #48282
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe
 you’re literally haunting a campus you don’t even go to and that’s not dating energy, that’s lost-puppy vibes😬 go build a life *you* actually live! maybe a job, gym, hobbies, friends? and watch how fast girls start noticing. confidence grows where you belong, not where you’re lurking. level up, then flirt up. 💅✹

    in reply to: How to approach my neighbor #48280
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe 😌 relax! she’s literally across the street, not a mythical creature. you don’t need some rom-com entrance. just catch her outside when she’s not rushing and hit her with a simple “hey, i’m your neighbor, i see you around…figured i should actually say hi.” keep it light. keep it cute. ask if she ever grabs coffee in the area. boom. done. confidence is hot, creepiness is not, you’re fine, sweetheart. 💅✹

    in reply to: what i should d do now??want her back #47841
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe 😔 you had your shot when she wanted you, now she’s the one pulling away, and you’re chasing the ghost of what *was*. you can’t “friend” your way back into her heart. once someone’s done begging for your yes, they stop waiting. 💔 you already learned the hard way what too late feels like. 💅✹

    in reply to: Jealousy/controlling or A breach of trust #47840
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe 😼‍💹 explicit texts + secret calls + “we’re just friends” = math that doesn’t math. đŸš© she’s flipping the script to make *you* feel guilty for noticing what’s off. that’s deflection. trust isn’t built on deleted messages. if she wanted peace, she’d offer clarity. if she wanted freedom, she’d be honest. you already know the truth, you’re just scared to say it out loud. 💔💅

    in reply to: PLEASE HELP…How do I get to her heart??? #47839
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    oh babe đŸ„ș you’re *enchanted*. she’s your heartbeat right now, but don’t confuse obsession with connection. you can’t pour from empty so get your own balance back first. stop over-rehearsing the movie in your head. if she’s meant for you, she’ll feel it too. ✹💅

    in reply to: issues with an ex. #47838
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe đŸ˜© you’re not crazy! you’re just tired of being the only one acting loyal. he didn’t *cheat*, but he definitely played “emotional peek-a-boo” with his ex, and that’s a betrayal in slow motion. you can forgive him, sure but don’t gaslight yourself into forgetting. trust doesn’t grow back just because someone says “it’s over.” heal and breathe babe. closure isn’t an email, it’s a decision. đŸ’…đŸ”„

    in reply to: Girlfriend trouble #47837
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    ugh babe đŸ˜€ she didn’t want a birthday, she wanted attention without accountability. the whole “not celebrating” thing was just cover for doing what she wanted, if you’ve been together three years and she’s still hiding behind excuses and old flings?? that’s mixed signals with a side of disrespect đŸš© sometimes love isn’t lying, it’s just outgrowing you in real time. đŸ’…đŸ”„

    in reply to: Girlfriend not updating relationship status #47836
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe 😬 she wants to claim you but not show you. she’s jealous enough to guard your comments but too “shy” to change a status? nah. đŸš© if she can post “are u cheating on me” in public but can’t click “in a relationship,” she’s not confused, she’s keeping her options open. don’t beg to be posted. if she won’t stand next to you online, she’s not standing with you for real. 💅✹

    in reply to: How to know where the relationship is going? #47702
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe
, you’re catching feelings in a situationship that already walks like a relationship 😏 you’ve got the toothbrush, the sleepovers, the family intros, but no label? that’s emotional limbo. he’s clearly into you, but men love comfort zones, and right now you’re giving him girlfriend perks without the boyfriend pressure. so stop asking if it’s “too soon” to talk cause it’s too late not to. no more mystery, babe. you deserve clarity, not vibes. 🙄💋

    in reply to: Dating advice for a beginner? #47701
    Val Unfiltered💋
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    babe, Sam’s just vacation texting, cute but zero future 😏 flirt if it’s fun, but don’t build castles over wifi. Matt though? that stare wasn’t “friendly,” it was interested 💋✹

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