I think she’s not giving mixed signals, she’s keeping it comfortable without committing. Meet her if you want closure, but don’t expect a different answer.
She enjoys the connection, but that doesn’t mean she wants the relationship back.
February 27, 2026 at 8:25 pm
in reply to: cheater.#52570
He didn’t just cheat once, he kept choosing to lie. That’s a pattern, not a mistake. If you’re feeling sick, bothered, and unhappy around him, that’s your answer.
A relationship without trust will only hurt you more. You and your baby deserve better.
Hey Nick, It sounds less like you can’t find the right person and more like you might be chasing the excitement of something new. For me, fifty dates in two years is a lot! If you keep feeling lonely even after intimacy, the issue probably isn’t the women. It might be that you are avoiding emotional vulnerability or getting bored once the “thrill” fades.
I’m really sorry you’re going through this. From everything you described, this does sound intentional such as blocking your number, disappearing from WhatsApp, and changing routines are clear signs he chose to cut contact. As painful as that is, chasing him or involving his family or job will hurt you more and won’t change his decision. You deserve someone who communicates and shows up for you. Right now, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and slowly detach. You’re not wrong for respecting boundaries, you’re protecting your dignity.
I’m sorry this happened to you. What you describe is absolutely rape and that is not your fault in any way. Freezing is a normal trauma response, and your body was trying to protect you. Please don’t be alone with him again. You deserve safety, support, and respect.
Self love is very important. Don’t let him ruin your peace of mind. Forget him. Move-on and try to entertain another guy so you can shift your attention to someone else and not remember him anymore. He don’t deserve your affection.
Be brave to tell to other guy that you want to quit and you’re not happy anymore. Start doing the right thing. 6 years of cheating is too much, so please end that non-sense relationship now! You both have a family to protect and as you’ve mentioned that your husband is a very good man, so he deserves a good wife. Always choose your family and your peace of mind.
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