"April Masini answers questions no one else can and tells you the truth that no one else will."

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  • in reply to: Conflict of Interest: Work Relationship #53139
    Riya
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    The most amazing thing about AskApril is her “Tactical Wisdom”. She doesn’t just give emotional advice, but also considers the legal and social implications. Her “Broken Leg” point is absolutely true. People often leave one bad relationship and immediately find solace in another, which often turns out to be just a “rebound”. AskApril’s advice stops you from becoming a “sorry” and encourages you to take back control of your life.
    I think, the job risk is real.
    Having a relationship with a subordinate while in management is a cardinal sin in the eyes of HR. Adam is absolutely right to be afraid. Your priority focus right now should be on only two things: ending the divorce without any “drama” and preserving your job and reputation.

    in reply to: Relationship Rocky Time #53138
    Riya
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    He has made you do “chores” and “sex” by saying, “I don’t want to get married.” Now you’re trying to be the “Perfect Housewife” so that the man doesn’t run away. This is not a relationship; it has become a performance review.
    And when you solved the problem of house and sex, now he has come up with a new excuse: I have to be alone. Dude, if you were supposed to be alone, why have you been together for 17 months? It’s clear that he wants to enjoy the “benefits” but is running away from the “responsibility.”
    It’s wrong, my dear
    AskApril gave expert advice that I liked a lot. Now that the man has said again that he is not ready to “settle down,” April Masini said: “If the man is wasting your time, start dating other men immediately.” That is, make him feel that you are not “available” if he cannot commit.

    Riya
    Member #382,799

    if a man says, “My arms hurt, so I can’t hug you,” then understand that he’s not building muscles in the gym, but just making excuses. Lifted so much weight that he couldn’t hold his girlfriend’s hand for two grams. Please! This is too much.
    The guy is such a coward and a runaway that when he sees you on the stairs, he slows down so as not to have to talk. This is looking less like a relationship and more like a “Tom and Jerry” cartoon.
    Dear, he himself asked “What should I do to break up?” So now tell him clearly: Don’t do anything, just be a little shy and disappear from my sight forever!
    AskApril is absolutely right that he is no longer interested in you at all. He just wants to see how long you will keep running after him, sacrificing your self-respect. Remember:
    If he really cares, he will come looking for you.
    If he doesn’t come, then consider the story is over.

    in reply to: maturity issue #53136
    Riya
    Member #382,799

    He is 21 years old, not a 50-year-old sage with all the knowledge in the world. He does not need advice. He needs peace. Let him go back to talking to his friends, otherwise the poor guy will be overwhelmed by his problems, and you will be left alone with the memories of your private school.
    Cool down a little, use your beauty and energy to give him a short break from the bitterness of the world, and do not create new problems for him. Sometimes just giving him a shoulder and saying “I am with you” is the biggest help. If the problems are very serious, he needs a professional (therapist), not your advice.

    in reply to: Trying to convince boyfriend pill is safe #53135
    Riya
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    Hi!!!!
    “He’s too big” sounds like a movie, but it’s not a solid excuse for not wearing a condom. Amazon has all the sizes you need.
    Your boyfriend is scared, and a scared man can’t “perform” in bed. Even if you “encourage” him, he’ll be thinking, “I’m not going to make a mistake”. All the fun is lost in that stress. Until he gets over the fear of pregnancy, there’s no point in having sex without a condom.
    Ask April was right that most people rely on the pill in long-term relationships, but if your partner is scared, it’s wrong to push him.

    Riya
    Member #382,799

    The truth is, when someone says, “I love you, but I’m scared,” they really mean, I want to keep you until I find a better option. The girl is playing her tricks and moving on, but not with you, but with someone else.
    Anyway, in a long-distance relationship, if the commitment is not 100%, it becomes just a way to pass the time.
    AskApril has expert advice to protect your self-respect. When she is “getting close” with someone else, you should not wait for her so-called breakup. Silence is your best response at this time.

    in reply to: getting over the past #53133
    Riya
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    You know that you are acting like someone is sitting in a burning house and asking, “Do I feel hot?” AskApril was absolutely right that when a guy has shown you that he’s trash, why try to recycle him? If a guy has cheated on every old girl, you’re not some “special edition” he’ll change for.
    He’s not a changing weather pattern that will get better with time; he’s his nature. Being with a guy like that isn’t “love,” it’s shooting yourself in the foot.

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