[Leo]

3 years of an affair and a marriage breakup. All of this had already created a lot of drama. Replying to a Facebook employee at 1:23 am is “stupid”, but ending the relationship over it? This is not “overreaction”, this is manipulation. That girl is using this little thing as a weapon to put all the blame on you and become the “victim” herself, and you’re saying she’s been badmouthing you and you’re still willing to forgive her?
Stop being a doormat! When a man falls so low and apologizes, doesn’t it make a woman lose all respect for him? She’s made you a “villain” so that she doesn’t have to feel guilty about her decisions.
I think chasing her is like chasing a ghost. She’s already gone. This 7-word text was just an “excuse” to get away.
If she really loved you, she would have listened. A woman who is not ready to listen has already made her “decision”; she is just looking for an excuse. She has left, now you too should take care of your self-respect and move on.

[Leo]

Ask April, you gave the expert advice, and I agree with you 100% that she is just using you. A loving woman does not consider a man to be an “ATM”.
Do not go back at all. Stop giving her money, block her on social media and get your self-respect back because you deserve better.
By the way, you were not in a relationship; you were running a “scholarship program”! You taught her English so that she could “flirt” better with other men. When a girl says, I have a line of men behind me, tell her lovingly: Then get in the back of the line, because your number has been cut off in my life.
Is she asking for “privacy” by blocking you? Privacy is what people who are cheating want. A fiancé who blocks her future husband on social media does not deserve to be given the keys to their house.

[Leo]

Bro, relax a bit! You are an “intern”, not an FBI agent who is calculating every step. Sarah herself has asked for dinner, it simply means that now the ball is in your court.
Is this your first date?
And I think the question is the biggest mood killer. It shows that you are very insecure about yourself. “Make” it a date, don’t “call” it a date. Your vibes, your perfume, and your confidence will tell you that this is a great date.
April is absolutely right that a man should always take the lead.
Don’t just sit around, but make a plan.
If the atmosphere is good and the vibes are matching, don’t hesitate to hold hands or move forward (obviously, understanding her wishes and gestures).

[Leo]

You have taken over the entire “Home Management” department, and he is sitting as a boss who only gives “performance reviews, saying, “Why didn’t you cook today?” You are a girlfriend, not an unpaid domestic helper. Even after all this hard work, if you are apologizing, then the balance is completely out of balance.
Dear, You are 26 years old, fit, hardworking, and caring. You should not waste your youth on the project of repairing a “broken man”. If he gets angry when you cry instead of hugging you, then he can never be your comfort. Recognize your self-worth and get out of a place where your value is only as much as a “housekeeper”!
AskApril gave the perfect advice that the Ex-wife is not going anywhere, she will always be a part of your life because of the child. And this relationship will never give you peace.
You are not right for each other. You are both stubborn, and you need a partner who is chill.

[Leo]

You did yourself a disservice by not telling him you were a virgin, which means you gave him “power” that he probably shouldn’t have handled. He thinks it’s all casual, while for you it was a “huge step”.

Stop texting. Let him realize that you aren’t some “available on call” toy. It’s only when you disappear that his ego will take a hit and he’ll actually feel your absence. And if he still doesn’t reach out? Well, then consider the trash took itself out!
I really like April’s style too because she speaks exactly “point-to-point. She gave expert advice not to pressure him by texting him repeatedly. If he’s not contacting you, the best solution is for you to stay silent as well.
The truth is, you signed a deal (FWB) that you don’t like; you did it all just in the hope that maybe he would change.
But AskApril says that’s very difficult to do, and the truth is that people don’t change their nature for the sake of others.

[Leo]

Hi!!!!
12-hour “blackout” is not normal, especially when you’re official. If a girl goes to see a client or works from home, does she not go to the bathroom once during the day? Doesn’t eat? Doesn’t scroll through Instagram? Phone in hand, but doesn’t respond, that means she’s “Active Ignoring.”
AskApril says, “Don’t build a mountain,” but the truth is, people only build mountains when they see a void below. I think the girl is thinking of you as “night-shift entertainment.” She’s lost in her own world all day, and when the day ends, and she’s alone, she misses you.

[Leo]

When you give someone “permission,” you are indirectly saying that you still have the power. “You will date only if I give permission,” bro, she is not property. She is an adult; he does not need your NOC (No Objection Certificate).
I think you should start training to be an “Ex-Husband” instead of being a “Matchmaker.” That guy isn’t your enemy, but he’s certainly not going to become your brother-in-law either. Move on and get a life!
I really like AskApril’s expert advice: Stop giving this ‘blessing’ and separate the house first. As long as you live under one roof, life will get more complicated. Start the divorce process and move out.

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