i love this girl that liked me at first. we had a date had a great time kissed alot. a couple of days later another guy ends up on the scene. it turned into some sort of competition between us and none of us won in the end!. i confronted her and asked why cant we be together? and she said ” i do like you , im just afraid that if we try and dont work out im going to lose you”. i didnt know how to take this and i stuck around a month has now passed and she said recently that im her close friend . ive tried to be her friend but the old feelings r still the same and its not for happening . what i dont understand is that she phones me everysingle morning waking me up and wants to spend all her time with me, and now i feel that im pushing her away to protect myself and hopefully move on . truth is i dont want to she is amazing!. am i a complete idiot for ending up in this situation do i still have a chance with her?? please be brutally honest!!.
