Hey,
So, over the last few months I did end up doing what was suggested to me here. At first, I thought that I should stay locked where I was; I feared that it would be too much of a gamble going back. As it turns out, being apart helped our relationship out a ton. Our relationship feel apart because of insufficient communication and lack of understanding where the other one was. A few months before, we had been through a rough hill with medical troubles and it seemed to put us on different sides when it was done with.
It turns out having time apart aloud us to both see what we needed and communicate it. It’s why I felt right back in place with her. We used to have arguments that could take weeks to resolve, now we get through rough patches in a day when they arise. I’ve never felt closer to her, so things turned out well. I broke it off, with my new ex a few months ago and was surprised to see that she was totally fine with it, our relationship was sliding as it was. And it became clear that where my head was, put her in an unfair position.
Thanks for your advice, I doubted but ultimately it was the decision that worked for me.
