I’ve asked her to get back together after 2 months of us breaking up but she was dissappointed that it took me so long to ask her and told me no (although i can tell she was choking while saying it). I thought the extra time would give her some space to sort things out. Honestly if there was any chance I don’t want to be the one to make the first move again because last time I tried I sounded desperate and woke up next day hating myself. I guess if you’re saying a year is a long time to get over someone she has already gotten over it as well.