Thank you ever so much for taking to time to respond to my question. I have started to limit the visits to his mother and sister and will continue to do so but this has already caused problems as they have told my partner that they are upset by the few times i visit and I feel this is ridiculous as im an adult and i have lots of other things that deserve my attention when im not at work.We have also been told that we are to buy them better Christmas presents by his father who also no longer lives with them, his sister complained that her gift wasnt good enough, as we have told them we are trying to save for our future but it seems to go in one ear and out the other. I just dont understand materialistic people im very upset by this. Anyway I will take heed of your advice and once again thank you ever so much it feels like a some of the weight had been taken off my shoulders,
Sending peace and love from Great Britain.