I cant thank you enough for everything you said. I think I really needed to hear the harsh reality and not have it sugar coated which is exactly what you did. Everything you said makes sense but ofcourse its easier said than done to just end things.
Esp. since he does still make an effort to stay in touch, call, say I love you – but as long as i follow his rules in the rship we are fine. As long as I hide my feelings, not have expectations or demands – things are great. As soon as I state my views, its all down hill.
However, the fact that you said, he has always been clear since the beginning about what he wants makes me think that I am the one that is being unreasonable and started expecting more and living in a fantasy world and therefore, maybe I should settle and lower my expectations and be ok with all this? I dont know -it is really so confusing. On one hand I know what he is doing in wrong, but on the other hand, I beat myself up for it thinking maybe he is right and I am demanding? I dont know why I cant see things clearly.
