I hear what you’re saying. And you’re right. Things have changed though. When we are together it feels right. He says it, I feel it. His friends say it because he has done things with me he wouldn’t for just any gf. He says he wants to introduce me to his folks, take me to his hometown…good signs, right? He is very good with my child and he does things to show he loves me.
So, since I didn’t finish it during times when it wasn’t fair to me, should I still leave, after all this hard work? We are both 30 something years old. I do fear that I am wasting my time due to him not being typical courting, ready to settle kind of guy. He has plenty female friends that just loooooove him. Many guys respect him. He is the one telling me about our “hypothetical” wedding and more kids…that’s when he is little tipsy and opens up without having his protection wall up. It’s music to my ears but then he goes and plans things with his friends without asking me if I want to do something. It is true, he doesn’t party as much as before. So April, what do you think?