[VIRI]

Wow April, I’m sooooo glad I found this site. I always wished I had a sister…someone i can open up to about my relationship issues. Now I feel I’m getting sisterly advice from u & a professional one @ the same time. You were so right when you wrote that honesty deepens the level of love. After I told him about my true feelings & saw the way he dealt with the situation, I feel like a stronger connection has been established between us. I might not love this guy like crazy, but I’ll surely love him deeply.
This is a new experience for me…to be with a guy on a daily basis, face-to-face & I will fully embrace it. It’s time for me to enjoy REAL life and I’ll always turn to you for advice.

Thanks for everything. Regards from Beirut, Lebanon.

[VIRI]

Dear April,

Thank you so much for your helpful advice. I agree with you that I’m not yet ready for commitment & I did my best to be honest & tell my bf about my concerns without hurting his feelings & as I expected he was very understanding & supportive & promised that he will help me get over my fears because he loves me & all he wants is to see me happy. He told me that we don’t need to rush things & that the most important thing in a relationship is open communication & as long as we can honestly open up to each other & share our concerns we will always find solutions & strengthen our bond.
I just have one more weird question. Why is it that when he’s away from me I feel that I love him more than when he’s with me? Even though I enjoy his company a lot & look forward to being with him, my feelings are stronger & more exciting when he’s away & they fade away once I’m with him 🙁 How normal is that?

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