[Shiloh]

Sexcess! 😀 We have actually become much closer in the last little while thanks to your advice.

I am still working really hard on my weight loss, and I take the time to do my makeup and hair every day before he gets home while the little one is napping. As for date night, we have had 2 so far that went amazingly well, and I was shocked when he made the plans to have one every week! He even thinks about what he might want to do during the day at work and then talks to me about it when he gets home. By the time the weekend rolls around, we are both so excited for the date!

He still hasn’t made an appointment for councelling, but like you said I am just going to back off and let him take care of that part. Besides, I know that he hasn’t been looking at porn because he has been spending all his time with me! 😉

Thanks again for the help, we are truely happier and are now on our way to having our relationship back on track. I would still be stuck in that rut if it wasn’t for the awesome advice.

[Shiloh]

Thank you so much for the helpful posts!

I am 100% working towards my weight loss… diet, exercise, the whole bit. I did suggest leaving the baby with his grandma on sunday night so that we could just have a few hours alone to go out for dinner and have some one on one time, and he seemed to think it was a good idea. I don’t think he’s quite ready for the hotel room yet, but he likes the idea of having a date night every week, so maybe we can work towards that! 😀 I have tried the seduction thing in the past, and he just doesn’t seem interested. I cut 18 inches off my hair and got all gussied up for him one day and he looked right past it… not a word. I’ll keep trying, but it seems like he is going to wait until I can lose the weight.

As for the porn thing, I was a little vague before. When he told me about the addiction, he also said that it has been a problem since well before I got pregnant, in fact it was before we even started dating. So we are still looking into councelling for that.

Thank you again soooo much for the responses! It’s nice getting a few unbiased opinions and they were super helpful.

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