[jonathanr]

am katdawg didnt you see the part where i said i wasnt going to meet my friends to celebrate his birthday i was just leaving the wedding to go home!!!!

i am 27 six years together is a long time but before i get married i wanted us to live together for a little while. i am in the process of building my house right now and should be completed at the end of the year.
i asked her to stay with me a couple of months to just experience life as a true married couple.
the reason being for this is that i have seen too many couples get married and then divorced after 6 months or a year reason being the transition between couple life and married life is a big step when at the end of the day you both goto your respective houses (parents house).
i dont know if she feels that i am not committed enough or wants more at then end of 6 years but that is what i am working towards.
right now she wants me to go couple counselling or have nothing to do with her.
i dont think i will be going and she is to stubborn to call.
thanks for your insight i was starting to second guess myself about my decision.

[jonathanr]

ohh yeah another question is
on your wedding night would you want to be with your best husband or best friend?
who would you want to support you?

[jonathanr]

i guess you thought your answer was sufficient enough as you did not reply to me other post.
thanks anyways

[jonathanr]

i did ask in advance earlier in the night if that counts.
i asked her at maybe say 8ish if we could leave a bit early.
when i did ask her she said no problem, at 11 when i was ready she was going to tell her friend.
her friend had problem with that and asked her to stay and lime with her.
mind you at 11 in the night i was not leaving the wedding to go celebrate anyone’s bday.
i had to go to the airport the following day and she knew this a month in advance.
knowing this would you say that i should have stayed and be more understanding?

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