[cynmart5]

My husband broke it off with me and keeps telling me that he likes the single life now. He talks like he is talkin to another. Everytime we talk he acts like some other lady is around but i never hear in the background. Since this he says i forgive you for what you done. Really i don’t know if you did it or not. He still calls and asks if he’s around he sometimes argues with me but. He says I’m sorry sometimes. He talks more sivil at times. The worst is he says he’s not comin back for a looong time. That is bad for the kids. He got a job local but says he will stay at a hotel.as far as the lie test I’m not going to do it without his involvement. I know it will backfire if i do. If i tell him i am doin it and he says no i won’t. I think i can prove that I’m so being true I’m willing to do that. Just a thought.

[cynmart5]

My husband is telling me that its no more between us. Even though i own up to the wrong I’ve done he is still mad. He got job local so that’s good. I’m still thinkin about that lie detect test. I don’t think he will ever believe me. I just want to stop him from being so cruel to me. If he don’t want to work things out that’s fine. I think i will get more help with me going to school and all. Plus he is calling me a liar lying since we met 8 years ago. Doesn’t that make it okay to take the test? I mean i refuse to be called a liar and wait to see if he is just calling me names, bashing me as he is hurt. Or if its what he truly feels and we can’t be sivilised for the kids.

[cynmart5]

So my man still thinks i cheated or had sexual encounter so he’s talking about not coming back. I know i am innoscent. He will support the kids for now but i got to have a plan b in case he loses his employment or such. In the meantime i will wait for a change of heart but keep on goin strong. Will try to go back and finish up culinary school and get stronger. Thinking about gettin lie detector test done om me to stop him from continuing goin on about it cost $200 250 but i don’t have it yet.

[cynmart5]

things are not looking too good. my husnand sent me a text after arguing that he wont come for another 5 monthsay he says he is so hurt he feels like choking me, so he wont comeback until his heart heals. I dont know if he’s serious, but he hase never ever hit me or talked this way.

[cynmart5]

An update- I have been praying for my situation because i feel like i can’t get through to my partner. He still thinks i had a sexual thing. Two days ago he calls me and when i didn’t pick up for dealin with the kids he left a message. I called him 1 minute later and he says. I don’t feel like talking. The message he left was about how he knows I’m busy with other things. That’s how women like Me do. Like if i was busy with that guy. Now yesterday he says he has great love because of our two kids but he might leave me. Then i told him to let god guide him. He says if he does i won’t like it.i refuse to believe god is telling him to leave me. I am trying to be patient but i dont know how much i can take. Always worried abou doing something that will be flipped against me in some way. All i can do is be patient.

[cynmart5]

I finally told the other guy that it was not even good to talk no more and he agreed. He will never call me amd its done. I know i should have never even went to see him. As far as the other times we met up one was in the shopping plaza and one was at a mcdonalds for 10 minutes tops no planned dates. It was the last meeting that was planned behind closed doors. I keep telling my man nothing happened but he still saying he doubts that. I’m trying to tell him that i just couldn’t do it. That i had no attraction to him. Hw has stoped buggjn as much but says he still thinks about it. All i can do is wait and see if he gets over it.

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