Hi April
What you have said is quite true. his ex is not an ex wife but an ex gf. he’s never been married and never will be. Not an issue for me if I get married or not as my parents are not married but have been together 26 yrs now. My biological dad died when i was 2. Anyways…..I was trying to figure out if he doesnt want a committed relationship with me. Why ask me to move in? But that doesnt really matter anymore. AS i know what i have to do and what you posted is EXACTLY that. 🙂 I’m 40 yrs old and homeless living in a freaking camper. I just realized today that he’s my Jailer and i’m the prisoner. And I did it to myself. Mind you he’s good…a good BS’r and charmer. I see him for who he is. He may not hit me but he’s abusive. I need to run far from him and quickly as possible. He’s not here so i can start now on my journey that will be own…thanks though for the advice. You sealed it for me 🙂