[seahorse21]

Thank you, i will start making a change then because if not i am going to get more manipulated, as it is…thank you for you advise and time to answer back.

[seahorse21]

Well i did go to my doctor, but everything is fine, he just asked if there was anything that was causing me stress or if i was depress, but i said no. I am thinking of going to see a psychologist since they offer that to students, hopefully i can get better. I tried going to the gym once and he got really mad, so i told him to come with me but won’t come, so i decided to do yoga. Hopefully that will help too.

[seahorse21]

Thank you for answering, well i do know friends that have kids and some of the moms at my daughter’s school i know from high school. The only problem is that he doesn’t believe in friends because his dad cheated on his mom a really long time ago, so his mom made it sure that he believed that. Yet he does have friends from high school, college, and at work while i on the other hand, don’t really talk to anybody because if they call or text, he is always asking why are they texting me, why are they calling, what do they want…i mean i remember when i became pregnant the first time, my friends came to see me at his house, and he went out and told them that they were not going to see me, then he came for me and made me tell them that i wasn’t going to their christmas party because now i was married and because he said so, this happened in 2004. Ever since i just decided not to talk to anybody, so i just keep everything to myself, and either i write poems, play my guitar or draw to get off some frustration or sadness off.
I do think i should have left him when i had the time, in college i did made more friends but i try not to give nobody my number because i dont want him to be nagging me the same stuff all the time, but i do see it unfair since he has friends and they call him, and to me it doesn’t bother me at all because i understand.

[seahorse21]

This semester i didnt go to college, i postponed it, but i feel more miserable than ever. During the day i decide to instead of being home i stay at my mom’s house, untill like 1pm or 2pm but for some reason he does not like that and gets mad at me. I stopped going to my mom’s house for about a week but i feel so depressed here at home. I started drawing and writing poems but the he gets mad because to him that’s all i do. I don’t know what to do, i feel like i’m suffocating in this relationship and now i am thinking that we should take some time apart. I feel better when he is not home than when he is. I have been trying to improve but the sexual desire is still lacking and can’t keep going like this. I feel so down and i have tried to smile and keep my head up but inside i’m so sad. I don’t know what else to do. I feel like my 4 year old daughter feels all of this because she has become really attached to me and doesn’t let go of my very easily and she won’t stay with nobody unless i’m there, she is now going to school and has adapted to the schedule but once i pick her up she just wants to be with me all the time.

[seahorse21]

Hi well im 24 and he is 25 we got together since 2004, but since i transferred to the other university he has become jealous or insecure. He doesnt go to school he finished his career already and now im trying to finish mine. though sometimes i feel like quitting but i look at my daughter and i know that she needs me, so thats the only reason that gives me hopes to continue.

[seahorse21]

Hello and thank you, I have been trying really hard but even after we have sex I just want to cry and not feel so bad. Yeah we have grown apart a lot he did notIced since last semester but this year things really changed a lot. We have a daughter too of three years of age. Sometimes I just want to divorce him I had thought about that since summer school because I had a panic attack but because he is so insecure and jealous. I stopped talking to all of my friends and nowadays I rarely see my family because he doesn’t want to go visit no more. Thank you

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