Hi,
yah BasketCaseCutie advice is great. they already divorced 2 years ago, and the time my boyfriend and i are just friends. i am 26 now and his 40 years old. we already been dated and spend time every 6 months or twice a year here in philippines. and sometimes he visited me every 3 months just to spend some time with me and to my family and friends. in our relationship we dont have any problem, the communication is intact and we send messages, call each other and also emailed each other everyday. thats why i am also confused because his x wife interrupting us to get married, i think she has no right to interrupt us since they are already divorced. but the main problem i am facing is the child, his xwife always telling and reminding her child about me. and of course i understand the childs felling, i dont want her to get disappointed about this. he will be back here again this september just to pursue our plan to get married. hope you can give me more idea on how i manage this..thanks.