I don’t want out of my relationship,for us to be together for 10 yrs. and not be married is odd I’ve proposed to her before she said yes but a week goes by and she said she’s changed her mind because she just said “yes” to say yes without giving it any thought.I’m not perfect I have my flaws,I’ve never cheated or give her any reasons to think otherwise I’ve tried to get her to agree to go to therapy but she doesn’t what to listen or take any advive from anybody,she thinks not talking about our problems is the best way and she has a one-sided view of things how do you deal with that type of person?