Thanks April, am going to think on how to approach her and tell her the truth, am hoping she will understand me as she was born as a result of an extra marital relationship and she was brought up by the dad and her mother in law, whom the dad cheated on with her mother.
Kindly advise me on how I should handle my ex. I know she is soon to be the mother of my kid and she deserves respect for that but she’s too much; she throws herself on me and I don’t like it. We broke up because she was controlling (she would check my call logs and texts then later call the number or reply the text in a suggestive manner behind my back),would never apologies for wrong doings/misunderstandings and abusive (slapped me one time in the presence of her young sister after refusing to let her have my phone then told me am gonna die of AIDS just like my late father saying, “after all, the child of a snake is a snake.”)
My friends think I should be hard on her but I feel like I will be giving her more reasons to fight me. What do I do?