thanks, i have mentioned the doctor to her before, but it never went anywhere. i will bring it up again. we do rush things at times, but for the most part try and take our time so we both can enjoy it. when we first got together, our love life was intense and frequent. now it is not as intense and very spiratic. im not saying i want it every day (though it would be nice), but i would like to have her want me more than she does. i will give your book a shot, and will let you know what happens. we are very creative, and try and keep things spicy, its just her cramping the next day or two that makes it hard for her. ill get back on more as i know it. thanks again.
