[moba18]

I’m glad you think she is interested based on that, it’s so hard to tell since she’s overall a nice person and could have easily done it to be friendly and to just catch up it seems. However, I won’t be moving into the new apartment for a little over 2 months which feels like a really long time to me. I just saw her 3 days ago and texted her happy bday today and I feel like I won’t be able to stop thinking about her for 2 months.

I don’t have any classes or any real reason to run into her until moving in though, so would it be a good idea to simply ask her to go to lunch or something before then like in a week or two? I feel like the worst case scenario is that she says she has moved on completely or isn’t still interested in which case there’s a month or so for the awkwardness to dissipate before we become neighbors.

[moba18]

Well sometimes that works, but I also can’t afford to take her nice places or out to eat every time we hang out. And I feel like I shouldn’t have to. We should spend some time at home eating a cooked meal and watching TV or a movie and then do something special like eat out or go somewhere as a treat, not as something expected. Does it seem right to only spend time with her if it’s on a date? And even if I invite her out or make a better offer, she won’t necessarily be able to make it. 😕

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