[Manwhore]

She’s not your business bud. In fact this is actually an unhealthy mentality you have and you should probably seek help.

She’s a married woman with a child she’s not any business of yours you have a sick fascination with her that isn’t founded in anything but a fantasy in your head. You need to find real women in your life that are actually available. Not a family member. It seems you might have a complete lack of social skills and so are forced to go after the only woman in your life that isn’t allowed to leave it.. your cousin. This is sick and twisted man, you need to self-reflect on this.

[Manwhore]

You’re just looking for validation girl. Your little female ego got razed over the coals and you want him to answer if he was ever attracted to you or not so you can “feel better”. The issue here is the fact your ego is so sensitive in the first place. This is a lifetrap, e.g. you will continue to have this issue over and over again with dudes if you don’t become conscious of this and stop this life/mental pattern. I think you also were probably playing games from the beginning as you lured him over with the promise of a blowjob, and then didn’t follow thru. His response is normal to your game-playing. Except he managed to turn it back around on YOU and now you want your validation back.

[Manwhore]

This is a toughie mang. There’s kind of a bro code going on (lmao obviously) and to be honest she’s made it pretty clear that she’s vocal and open about her flirtiness. So I think it’s guaranteed if you sleep with her your buddy will find out. Which yes would probably be a SHITTY thing for him.

[Manwhore]

I think you need to not read into it too much. Women are prone to worry and analyze and make a mess of something when it’s simply going to fix itself and work out naturally. There is nothing about sex that automatically victimizes a woman or means a man is taking advantage. That’s silly and it’s the social conditioning that gets thrust on men and women and then they start to believe it.

Is he hurting you? No. Are you still getting emails from this supposed friend of yours that in the end turned out to be a bitch? No. So what’s the issue. You guys smoke and have sex sometimes. Big deal. You’re a big girl you can handle it stop looking for someone to give you a reason to feel sorry for yourself. Take care of business. Your REAL issue is your weight gain. THAT you can take appropriate action with.

[Member]

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