Thank you so much. And i must say u are right as well. I had a talk with her yesterday morning and all she does is listen and has nothing to say, but just sit there. Its like talking to a teen or something. I can tell she is immature at age 50. She feels that if she has told me once that she loves me, she does not have to repeat it anymore . I’m dealing with a woman who wants to remain in this relationship for the wrong reasons. and i told her that as well. I don’t want a woman who just want security. A few years ago when we was dicussing things she told me that maybe she don’t know how to love. IF i don’t show any excitement in this house, it will be none at all. ITs like she wants me to take the lead on everything when it comes to love and love making. Yes i do know what i need to do and i have even gave her the chance to leave, with saying to her, ” if you don’t want this then go” ” but don’t put my life on hold” still again she has nothing to say. I also told her that if this is who you are , then i don’t want us. I have never met or lived with a woman like this , who do not want to show love. I know growing up she didn’t see love in her household as she says. When i told her that i do not feel her love and i’m not really sure of her love, this woman has nothing to say about that at all. She says there is no one else, no need to have anyone else.I see alot of pride in her, i really do. Its like she don’t have to prove a thing. Her pass relationships was based on the man showing and giving the love, thats what she told me a few years ago is that she never had to show anything. This woman wants me to really accept her as she is and don’t care about how i feel. So again i know its gonna be hard, but i have to put her out my house somehow. I’m a disable vet who can’t work due to my disabilities and dealing all this is not helping. She lost her son back in Feb this year who was living with us and i can truly say i don’t know if that bothers her, because of the way she acts and treated him at times for no reasons. I loved him like he was my child. I know this has to end, when it will is up to me i know. Because i know what kind of relationship i want and love has to be in it along with everything else thats apart of love. Again i thank you so much for your advice.. Victor
