Thanks April for posting this. I love your site by the way. I think if Maria takes your’s and Tina’s advice, she will be a happy wife. I should know. I was not a virgin when I got married, but my husband and I didn’t consumate our relationship until the wedding night. When I saw my husband naked for the first time, I was surprised, my heart kinda sank, and I felt disappointed (he’s under five inches down below also and not very thick), but I started out doing things like what you and Tina suggested above (that’s the way it’s been since), and we’ve had a wonderful sex life. Just don’t give up Maria.