Hi April,
So I followed your advice to take things slow and give space. I’ve only seen her maybe 2 or 3 times in the last 3 weeks and I havent been smothering her with constant phone calls or texts. When we do text, she tells me about how depressed she is and how shes not ok. I visited her at work earlier in the week and she was very happy to see me. When I was leaving, I whispered to her that she looked beautiful and when we text I try to make little comments like that in hopes of cheering her up.
Lately, her facebook statuses have been about her ex. She comes across as being either angry, sad, confused, etc. Its starting to make me worry and think that I might get lost in the shuffle and my gestures, words, actions, etc. will be forgotten once she gets better and starting getting over her ex.
Shes having a bday dinner next week, I bought her a little present that is kind of an inside joke and something that only her and I would understand. Im also going to include a homemade card with a poem and message, once again, in hopes of cheering her up and letting her know that I care.
With that said, do you have any thoughts or feedback?
Thanks
