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Hi April,
Thank you very much for your advice. I’m so thrilled to receive it and make use of it.

I have a completely different problem now, first I didn’t know if I should create a new topic for this but since you’ll guide me I’ll post it right here even though it’s not related to any women I wrote before.

This is about my sister and her husband. We r from India. They stay in Aus away from all of our family. My brother in law called my dad recently and told him that he is not happy with my sister’s behavior. He said she was not being close to him since past 2 years and she is behaving uninterested. He also mentioned few incidents which are interfering with their relationship. Like she was resisting to show her phone once when they had an argument. My dad and everyone are worried about their situation… I’m going to visit them in Dec of this year, so my mom said I have to do something about the situation before something bad happens. How can I change their minds to like each other. Or mainly my sis who is acting very uninterested.

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Yes! April. She is the women from September. I want to stay with her for a long time.. Really long..

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Hi April,

This is a different women.
And also I think she doesn’t trust me enough to share everything. How do I gain her trust?

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Hi April,

I have been following your advice and everything seems to be going fine. But somewhere deep within me is the feeling of being betrayed and it’s killing me sometimes. I just want her to tell me what’s going on, so I can avoid that annoying dude by confronting him for what he did. I want it so badly. We both made promises to not to date other people and I have a feeling she is not keeping her part… How do I tell her how I feel?

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That’s exactly what I was expecting April. Thanks for your help. So I don’t have to worry about anything then? hope everything goes well. Thank you. 😛

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Would it be okay to tell her about other women?

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Thank you for your valuable advice. But my real problem is I don’t want the other guy to involve in our relationship. He knows a lot about me and I’m afraid he might be talking about me and listening to our conversation secretly. And he is even downsizing me and telling her I’m a very serious guy and may break up with her if she talks to other guys. I’m really annoyed with this guy. How can I trust this girl in sharing my personal things. If she is doing this with me.. I want her to be frank and tell me everything. I Dont want to hurt her in anyway. I just don’t know how to make her understand me.

Thank you April…

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Hi April,

I have learned a lot from what you told me previously, thank you very very much fro that. I followed you and had a successful relation for 2 years. Now I have comeback to you for your trustful advice again.
I met a girl through a guy. And thought she is a regular girl, but turns out she is not telling me everything. The other guy and I meet this girl at the same time and I talked to her on phone and told her I’m interested and she too was into me. The girl and I are not serious. We know that we won’t marry and agreed to an open relationship, But unfortunately I told the other guy about this thing and then after a few days the girl came to know that I told him . How? I wondered and few days later I noticed both of their phones are busy at the same time…

What happened here I think is the other guy called her and took advantage of our open relationship thing and told her not to tell a word to me or I’ll be maThank er.
But I just want to know what’s happening. I don’t have a problem with that girl talking to any guy. I asked her casually once and I confronted him more than once but they don’t say a thing. We all get this feeling when people talk about things we told to somebody else. That’s happening to me now. They just don’t tell me out of fear, I think. and I want her to tell me. She likes me that I can be sure of.. How do I make her to tell me without making her look character less or like that..
Am I the only one to think that they are talking behind my back? After all this and more I have a strong feeling this is all real. What should I do?

On an attempt to make her tell something, I stopped replying to her since yesterday and she kept on calling and texting me…

Thank you very much.

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hi, I went to her house yesterday.

i did exactly what you said. ask her out.
I told her I wanna go out for a movie, she said ok but she took it as a hangout together with friends. Then to make things clear I even mentioned both of us alone. she said ok and diverted the topic. we talked normally for 2 hours and about her Bf (my friend) for about 20 min. then i came back and called her on the phone and talked for about 15 min. thats it, and its broken. 🙁
Iam a fool to let her go for a while, 2 months back I have been a little busy, so never contacted her for a few weeks. lot of things have changed in that short time…

you told me to ask her out on a date but how exactly should I ask. in this situation its impossible for me. its like three people talking together in a small room.
so many years and girls have passed but never found this girl until now. she has all the qualitys I like. she has a caterer unlike any other girl.

should I stay in touch, or should I let go. either is hard for me a this point.

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Hi… mam, how r u? its been a little while. and I haven’t told her how i feel yet.. maybe the time wasn’t right till now. and the problem is just getting bigger.

My friend’s ex-girlfriend is back with him so now he is cheating on them. He is avoiding Nikki(the girl) a lot, by not answering her calls and sometimes scold her for calling. she used to call me a cry few times, and all i cloud do is support my friend that he maybe busy. but it wasn’t serious untill now.

since last week Nikki is was crying everyday because of him. she did not even tell me until I saw it for myself today.. she explained everything to me. that she was crying everyday and suffering from headache couse of it. i couldn’t bear it so I told her that he didn’t love her truly but nothing about cheating on her with his ex. he was avoiding her since last two months but when he talks to her he says he will always love her but a little busy.

He never keeps any secrets with me so I know everything he dose. he is always hanging out with his ex girlfriend now a days and says he is still waiting to decided on them..

Nikki asked me to come to her house tomorrow so we can talk about this.. Iam trying my best to keep her cheerful but there is not much I can do.. or is there? please suggest what’s the best thing to do, before I get into trouble.

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That was really awesome. thanks for the reply… Sorry for mentioning my friend that way I could never badmouth any of my good friends, I was just trying to point the negative points for why he doesn’t deserve her (maybe being a little selfish 😳 but all of them r true) Anyways there comes my main problem 🙁 , that I don’t wanna hurt anyone my buddy nor her…! I have no issues on her dating anyone before we get together 😉 .. and I can’t hurt my friend and make me look like a thief…! 😐 What if in the end, she says no! ❓ … I would lose my friend and her..

I went out with her a couple of times but I think she did not take it for a date.. Whatever I did or said she took all of them with a smile.. I was giving her a lot of clues that I like her, and I think she is too. One day she told me that she will do love marriage but only if their parents agree, In this situation my buddy can never convince her parents due to a lot of reasons.. She herself told me that its tough for him to get a decent job and if he continue like this he can never take care of her or even convince her parents. just after that she asked me a few questions about my plans for marriage and future (I took it as a sign 😀 sorry if iam wrong)

There is no way to peace, peace is the way.. 😆 So how do I get the girl in this Confusing story of mine? ❓
will I be safe and alive? 😮

Thanks.. 😀

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